Hey there. I just discovered this subreddit and posted this elsewhere prior.

Ok so I met a girl that's overall cool. We went for a drink and we hit it off really well. We had a little make out session on our way back after.

The next day she told me she enjoyed herself, that we have a lot of chemistry and attraction however she met another guy in which she decided to meet again (she agreed to meet him before we started talking but I got to meet her first). She didn't rule me out but just wanted to be truthful with me since she hates lying and misleading people. We planned another meet but she said she didn't want to be physical until she got to know me better (which I kinda understand).

Now this is not the first time I meet someone that was meeting multiple guys.

In the past; I usually withdrew because I don't like it when women compete or she chooses the other but this one seems different and sincere that she likes me but doesn't like to be rude. I wanted to know if there is any advice that can be given for me overall and to see if I can win this "race".

TLDR: Girl I met agreed to meet another guy at a later date before meeting me. She met me and agreed to have chemistry and met other guy and agreed to meet again but she doesn't know who she wants...