Recently been trying to disqualify better, as I frequently do the opposite (but realized many girls I've disqualified are the ones who chased me the most).
More recently I told one girl, who's a real attention seeker, that I'm currently seeing someone. She immediately asked if it's an open relationship, to which I said no but she's moving out of the country soon. She stuck around me the rest of the night, but her reactions the next couple days have not been what I've expected.
I was assuming she'd try way harder more frequently now, but instead she's been limiting herself to a couple attempts a day to contact me. However, each has been things like texts suggesting nudes, snapchats when I don't reply (i.e. test if I'm on my phone), "are you ignoring me" type things, and of course double texting.
So it's like she's still being slutty/flirty/desperate but is deliberately limiting herself. My best case guess is that she's trying to keep planting seeds thinking I'll soon be single. My worst case guess is that she wants to keep in contact just enough to hopefully use me for something down the road, but that the disqualifying failed.
Thoughts/tips/how to do better next time?
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