Did a quick search and realized this topic has not been covered well or succinctly in years. So going to share a quick concept - because for me, unless I understand it intellectually, I have a hard time accepting it.

It's simple.

Why you should not put women on a pedestal.

  1. Women want a higher status man than them.
  2. When you put women on a pedestal, you are literally putting the woman above you, or putting yourself below the woman. You are saying the woman has higher status than you.
  3. Woman does not desire you because you are indicating you are of lower status.

So even if you want to put a woman on a pedastal don't do it. Even if you are about to explode from leaking your desire to pedastal the woman, don't do it. Bite your tongue, walk away from the situation, do whatever you need to do to not pedestal the woman or show that you believe they are of higher status than you. Because the moment you do, you're their food baby, you aren't the shark. They are.

It may take time to actually let go of this issue, but the more you practice not pedestaling them, the more you'll see the benefit,s and the more you'll come to realize, you're the shark, and they are the food.

Good luck my brothers.