What to do on second date

jttjt · 2017-11-09T11:59:14+00:00

Just quickly get one drink somewhere different then go back to your place. Alternatively tell her to just come to your place for drinks. If she already suggested going to your place for Netflix this shit is 1000% in the bag already so all you have to do is escalate.

Honestly the more experience I get the more I've been pushing and the faster I've been escalating and it seems most girls these days will put out ridiculously quick, it never ceases to amaze me. I usually try to fuck girls as soon as possible just to figure out how much of a slut they really are and a decent amount will literally fuck within an hour of meeting me. Maybe it's always been like this and maybe it's cause I'm young, I don't know. The ones that don't put out on the first night seem to be few and far in between and even then I can only imagine they probably did put out the first night for some other dudes. TRP almost leaves me with more questions than answers, I don't want to keep sleeping around with randos but I don't know where to go from here when absolutely no girls seem like they're LTR material.

Jesus sorry for the random unrelated rant

MikeAlphaGolf · 2017-11-09T12:46:59+00:00

ABC. Always be closing.

She’s suggested Netflix so she is keen to smash. You just have to make this happen in a cool and low key way, where you are making it happen and she comes along for the ride.

Grab a bottle of wine or bubbly. Put it in the fridge. Have a drink close to home, kino from the very beginning. After you first drink, “hey I have a bottle of wine in the fridge. Let’s go back to mine and drink it”.

Go home. Escalate more. Should be easy at that point.

McVaghunter · 2017-11-09T14:59:48+00:00

You did not fuck on the first date so don't call that a successful night.

The girl is asking for some Netflix! She wants that NETFLIX in different positions all night long!
She suggested to get some drinks first just so she doesn't sound like a slut. She had her fingers crossed hoping you'd suggest going straight to your place... I can only imagine the disappointment in her face when you agreed to grab the drinks first.

Cut the bullshit and tell her you're going straight to your place.

1NV0K3R · 2017-11-09T14:07:57+00:00

She already suggested that we have drinks, and then go to my place for Netflix

Man this is autistic.

How about you go have a few drinks and then back to your place for netflix?

Title	What to do on second date
Author	broek_325
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Comments	5
Date	November 9, 2017 11:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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