How legal divorce rape impacts moving on. I'm at target . I want to buy valentines card for a woman I think is interested in me. After I'm done paying for the card for her and kids, I don't have enough money to prevent impending gas disconnection . Cooking gas that is, while my ex, who gets paid by me and her own job every week. This increases her cash flow, while I scramble for money. Why is this system so unfair ? It seems like the system is build for people who are either below middle class or above it. People in the middle gets screwed big time.