Anti-Game | Chateau Heartiste "A lot of losers in love insist that “being yourself” is morally superior to “manipulating and seducing” a girl with game." “Being yourself” isn’t an ethically or strategically neutral stance..."

Unrealenting · 2019-03-09T04:17:19+00:00

Ending up giving a counter tip at the end of my review. Got to be careful when labeling the whole. Plenty of lovey losers have their women leave, and plenty of plates leave their men. Is there a right or wrong way? And plenty of both sides don't get the woman in the first place. Different things work.

I think heartiste can be too ideological. This is not the way to look at the issue truthfully.

But the article does have some excellent insight. You just cringe when you see that stuff. The terrible thing for those types of people though is they don't learn or take a long time to adjust over the course of their life in such matters. It depends on how many girls they ultimately get maybe they get 1 and stop. Fine. But the article was demonstrable in this regard. A what not to do.

But I don't consider thinking about things like that much worthwhile as I don't have to and it's highly analytical. And then it's a good narrative but there's much assumption as well. Maybe on another day those two went alright. Such articles are always written there with an inner-club air of superiority. I think it's a part of the snake oil about the site, even if there's some good insight. It's not hard to get women, but it IS hard if not impossible to get every single one. That's the sites greatest mistake. It lowers my trust in it not to mention the politics. I don't consider it a fair representation no matter how analytical of the world.

But that's not to deny the truths. That was absolutely carnage - well as told by him. By modern article standards it succeeds though. It did have the tendency to bog down in self agrandizing and self promotion. And mother fuckers lol I thought it was an article about THEM, not him.

The things we see.

It was a self reflecting ideological piece written due to his own shortcomings. Fine. No judgement. But then he supposes most men don't want to learn, which allows him to say he's special.

The fact is most if not all men do want to learn just depends how it's packaged. Instead of going after the girl later he should have went after the guys. Less competition for him lol.

But as I said as much, you'd expect the impetus of the article may be about others, uh uh... It was about himself. His friend served as the alturism in helping pummell the beta out of them leaving himself to tell a grand tale where he fights for center stage.

This is the most sickening self deception, a dishonest article, with naught a message actually.

This dickhead would have been better served by telling us that the more you talk the more your value especially in the beginning can sink if you're not on point.

Let's wake up. The author is happy to let us think that he's the only one getting laid despite the birth rate and anything else. Those guys could possibly have girlfriend's or anything. One bad pickup means jackshit even if it's a "downplayed 15min" discussion with two chicks. They probably had shit they wanted to do but no I don't think talking to them was the best idea for those two. They clearly looked uncomfortable themselves. Maybe it's not fully their "game".

I said I didn't mind the article but upon further reflection I think it was poorly conceived. And any worthwhile message for the younger crowd or more naive crowd was lost in this cunts mirror-gazing, clearly he's in love with himself.

I know that must be bad to hear for anyone here who hates themselves and wishes they loved themselves but really, you've wasted your time on that article. At some point you have to go through that shit in life and it will happen more than once. I once went into a situation like this and pulled the girl out of the swarm, we had a smoke back then actually, ages ago. She wasn't very nice. Anyway the ho went and had drinks with someone who bought her a shit ton of shots once I was bored with her and I went back to my friends. I had left after that. Be careful what you wish for. This girl was sucking down his face because she was very drunk by then.

Take action. Go in. Do shit. Leave. Don't let others do stuff to you or for you, even the girls. No single method works on anyone. It's really random unless you're preselected. The article is disingenuous there but I don't thinkn it claimed anything beyond anti-game....

.... But if it's useless to draw conclusions from, then it's source material is useless.

That article situation was just some people talking. Ffs no one was running ANY game lol. The author seems to think that chicks love fucking with people's heads and (they do some of them) and there's puzzle pieces.

I don't write analysis pieces because I don't think it's an overly complicated process. I just think too much analysis is delusion or snake oil.

Sorry or maybe that's myself since I am far more advanced than many, I honestly though despite that do not consider investing time into any blog a worthwhile endeavor, not just that one.

It's probably better to say the author had assessed his chances and desire and acted accordingly, however those two being wet behind the ears or naive about their chances, well at least they tried, but were seriously out of their depth beyond a quick conversation. It sounds like they had gfs at home if anything because they were so docile. Maybe they're hot shit to other types of girls we don't know, but there's no autopilot in them.

Some people can do autopilot, some can't. But I tell you what guys... Fuck thinking about it to the level of the blog, that's delusion or obsession. The author implies such a situation would fill him with great shame, whereas for the majority of the population the fact they even tried something was a major highlight. No the author doesn't like girls, nor do you need to like them to fuck them. But seriously I bet you those guys liked themselves. Just because they couldn't navigate their way to her pussy, they had no logistics or plan what to do next like I can't care about them since I don't know them.

But I do care enough about myself to not get bogged down in laughing at others for their anti game, though it is funny of course, any bad attempt at anything is, but the author revelled in it.

That's far more concerning and probably warrants it's own article. He's the one with the golden dick afterall, guys, and by the draw conclusions/material value law, much more could be gleaned from it. But such levels of introspection probably aren't forthcoming from the guy.

My lesson to you: those guys wanted to kiss those girls. I love kissing girls. But! I want you to imagine as a thought process what you would do, to stay focused and unnatached, imagine how you would go about fucking them without ever kissing them.

Source: I'm a natural, no analysis required. Yes I do kiss girls, but you need the focus and on-point, creativity and expanded mindset to increase your social and situational awareness, to not care and yet kinda care as appropriate to the beginning of any kind of relationship. And remember you'll be focusing on the girl. Think like that. Both moving toward and staying away, using the environment and moment for energy rather than personal desire. You don't need game when you have attitude. Let her want to kiss you first. Or get handsy, be in control. Those guys were not. This is not a cure all and sometimes you take the bull by the horns, rule nothing out, but as a general rule for getting to know someone, being comfortable, take your creep and throw it out. Free yourself. She wants to focus on herself not you. The above solves much. You don't need a whole lot of game with the right attitude. Yes be an opportunistic sure some girls are easy. I'm an excellent kisser but being so is not direct-path to the goal. And yes I've asked girls to kiss me before, and they've then asked me to kiss their friends. Shit gets hot round me sometimes more than you can imagine.

But first things first. Fuck the analysis. Shove something into your head that actually fucking works. You can have sex with girls without ever kissing them first, hell even get to know them to sand they still want to fuck you, why? Many reasons. Put a hand behind your back kind of thing. Ingenuity solves so much. And my brain round girls, even on that tinder trash, is pure clarity. Sex has nothing to do with you to her, think about it. The explanation may be lacking but it all lines up in the end. You may begin to think "hell! I did that, I made her do it" nah she just let you. Girls don't get attached as quickly, so it's no use going in with the hope to kiss mindset or score, or anything. At first your just talking, then you're kissing or fucking or trying to arrange things to get to that point. Just imagine what you will do, generally speaking because girls in bars sometimes kiss you immediately, how you would approach and be impressive if you couldn't kiss her/get all personal. That may be too disassociative to some people but it clears the decks. Honestly before you know it you'll be knocking socks off to the chicks to whom you're their type. No snake oil here. It's most likely those girls found those guys not to be their type, the dichotomy of need guys to approach us but can't choose the type who do.

Wake the hell up. It was mild anti game if that. Wouldn't you rather BE the game. She might like your looks just say but girls are non attached to start with. This is why asshole game plays on that, mere tricks for example. If you think about holding two ideals in your head at once is difficult i.e what to do if not looking for kiss or something from her/+ how to get her, consider it a bump stop.

It's more natural. Also that's how I am especially since I've basically never been without a girl in my life since I could jerk off, just trials and tribulations during.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-03-10T05:19:23+00:00

Y'know, I'm so glad every coach I've ever had told me "Don't worry about learning the rules of the game, or the skills that you need to perform at a high level, just go out on that field and 'Be Yourself'....I'm sure you'll do fine." /s

The bluepills think "Be Yourself" means being a dopey Herb 'wif no game and still get the cheerleader anyway. They don't want us using our 'no fair' PUA trickeration to score fine pussy.

TRP Version: Improve yourself, learn how girls think, be authentic and kick ass. Simples.

2019-03-11T00:23:26+00:00

The problem is, being yourself only works if you're a natural at game, or your SMV is 9-10.

2019-03-11T06:15:43+00:00

didn't read, but it's so cringe watching people try to be something theyre not lol

TheOneSillyOne · 2019-03-11T17:01:19+00:00

Only "be yourself" if you aren't interested or if it already works anyway imo.

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