Thoughts?

summonblood · 2019-02-27T22:42:34+00:00

I once asked a guy if he’s in an abusive relationship, and he said no just normal stuff like, her emotional manipulating me, guilt tripping me if I want some alone time or hangout with friends, screams if I don’t pay for things, withholds sex if I don’t do what she tells me, hits me when she’s mad, and lies to her friends about how I don’t do anything for her. Girls are just crazy.

That’s how normalized abuse against men is when men think this is a normal part of dating bec ‘it’s not a big deal it happens to every man.’ THIS! IS! NOT! NORMAL!

Avistew · 2019-02-27T22:50:51+00:00

It is absolutely true that these things happen, and that many girls and women who grew up around it think it's normal.

It is also absolutely true that only a small minority of men engage in that behavior.

If this is rape culture, then is it also "have a kid without your consent and ask for alimony" culture? Both are obviously shitty and can ruin the rest of your life, doesn't mean a majority of people do it.

NateDchamp · 2019-02-27T23:11:43+00:00

How about the fact that if a man is cat called not only is it ok but considered a good thing if a girl walks past and grabs your dick as long as she’s hot you scored the double standards are disgusting

dirkberkis · 2019-02-27T22:40:47+00:00

Not even 5k people liked it. Times a changin.

nisutapasion · 2019-02-27T23:16:37+00:00

Well, statistically speaking, if it happens to the majority, it is in fact the norm, therefore, it is normal.

N19864 · 2019-02-27T23:36:12+00:00

Fake. That's all I have to say.

goodmod · 2019-02-27T23:45:19+00:00

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Title	Thoughts?
Author	hotredcowboy
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	February 27, 2019 10:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/avjadx/thoughts/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/thoughts.1181324 https://theredarchive.com/post/1181324

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