My good friend and I are both interested in the same girl.

MetalDevils · 2017-11-13T23:43:04+00:00

If you tried to tell him the truth, he would conclude you are jealous.

Just laugh it off, and talk about it like a friendly rivalry.

Don't berate or encourage him, just do your thing.

After you seal the deal with the chick, be nice to him and ask if he wants to work out with you a few times a week.

Treat this as an opportunity to win with grace, and also start helping a friend create a better life for themselves.

Pravux · 2017-11-13T23:37:21+00:00

Oh man I had to deal with these kind of guys all the damn time back in my single days in Hawaii. You'll always have those friends who are orbiters, have no game, friendzoned, and overall will cock block you with every chance you're around the chick.

After awhile I got tired of their shit, I had the same mentality you're going through. Fuck it I'll let them go ahead and have a chance with her. Fuck that mentality. What usually ends up happening is your friend/friends that have this bullshit crush on every girl they meet that gets introduced to the circle of friends is they fuck it up. They creep her out, she finds dick elsewhere and you never see her again.

Make the move, if you have the charisma, you know the game and can deliver. Make the move. Take control. Afterwards you'll lay pipe and she'll stick around and you have her as a plate or you decide she's not in the group from there the choice is yours. By doing this your teaching your beta friends they need to up their shit instead of talking. You like her, walk the talk or move aside. Good luck amigo.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-11-14T03:12:01+00:00

"Do what you want, and bear the consequences."

-From, "The Sayings of Chairman Zatizev"

If you can close and he can't, not your fault. It's not like he can call "Shotgun!" over you.

DonaldBaelish · 2017-11-13T23:25:46+00:00

Everyone is going to have a different opinion on this.

I say go for it if she has big tits.

htbf · 2017-11-13T23:34:01+00:00

Did he know her before you by a long time?

[deleted] · 2017-11-13T23:42:32+00:00

There's enough abundance of pussy to not have to chase the same girl as your friend.

Unless you really don't give a shit about him I wouldn't do anything.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-14T00:47:49+00:00

I'm more curiois about why you let yoir good friend be a 5 when u can help him improve

ViperG · 2017-11-14T18:30:57+00:00

all is fair in love and war

Title	My good friend and I are both interested in the same girl.
Author	GaelicGuy19
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	November 13, 2017 11:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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