"Do lesbians have better sex than straight women?" [Enjoy heterosexual relationships while they're still legal]

Criket · 2018-07-09T19:57:53+00:00

In reality, the majority of lesbian couple end up sexless about a year or two. Most male are active while the female are passive... When both are passive and wait to be satisfying by the other, it become dead really fast. O_o

McFeely_Smackup · 2018-07-09T20:15:42+00:00

A self selected, self reported survey is not much of a reliable source of information.

Hell, sexless lesbian relationships are so cliche "Lesbian Bed Death" is a real term, compete with its own subreddit.

09f911029d7 · 2018-07-09T20:43:44+00:00

Don't get your news from the loo roll.

fengpi · 2018-07-09T23:46:03+00:00

Oh, it's a resounding yes!

"The only rational choice for young, hot, sexually-confused chicks is now perfectly clear!" declare lesbian researchers with great fanfare.

d4m4s74 · 2018-07-09T20:02:01+00:00

And literally, the same day, another article in the Guardian, which claims that if it's men who are having trouble reaching orgasm, then it must be because they have neurological or psychological problems.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/jul/09/my-partner-cannot-achieve-orgasm-and-i-have-lost-all-confidence-in-bed#comment-118039772

2018-07-09T20:15:44+00:00

I can't believe people pay to read this kind of bullshit. Unbelievable.

shit-zen-giggles · 2018-07-09T22:35:44+00:00

A good take home lesson from this article (if any):

stimulate the clitoris before and during intercourse. Works wonders in my experience.

2018-07-09T22:53:17+00:00

Isn't this simply because women know how they want to be pleased, so another women would be better at it? Is it not just simple logic?

2018-07-09T23:05:44+00:00

I have to admit I'm both surprised and not surprised by the large number of downvotes. I suspect that some may find my merely mentioning this homophobic, but frankly my point has nothing to do with what gay people do. My criticism of this article is twofold:

The blatant attempt to deligitimize heterosexual relationships. It's right there in the title. "Do lesbians have better sex than straight women?" Imagine the outcry if the terms "straight women" and "lesbians" were reversed. That would definitely be met with immediate cries of homophobia. Also, "better" is a VERY broad term.
The contrast with the article from the same day in the same "news" site. Conclusion: if women don't have orgasms, it's men's fault. If men don't have orgasms, it's men's fault.

goodmod · 2018-07-09T23:50:11+00:00

Removed because it'e not a men's rights issue, and because the claim that heterosexual relationships will be made illegal is absurd.

William__F0ster · 2018-07-10T00:01:43+00:00

Sue Mann, the public health consultant involved in the research, said: “Enjoying a fulfilling sex life is important for women’s mental and emotional wellbeing.” This is true, of course.

True for women "of course" - but men? Ahhh, fuck 'em.

Erin Spampinato in The Guardian arguing how western Literature - yes, you read that right - you know, poetry and shit - how it "reinforce[s] the logic of the incel" (archived link):

[Elliot Rodger is] a product of anglo-American literary culture, which (particularly in the 20th century) treats the topic of male sexual frustration as if it is of prime importance to us all [ ... ] I was trained to accept that male sexual frustration was a serious issue because I read hundreds of pages about it before the age of 20 ...

One of Spampinato's examples is Shakespeare's Hamlet - Prince of Denmark:

One source of Hamlet’s insanity, those around him find it natural to assume, is his sexual frustration with Ophelia. Multiple characters in the play scheme to bring the two together, hoping that if she puts out he’ll calm the fuck down and not kill everyone.

Because remember people - it's only true of course that “Enjoying a fulfilling sex life is important for women’s mental and emotional wellbeing.”

Whatever can be done?

Well, that article on 'Do lesbians have better sex than straight women?' also says this:

The key to sexual satisfaction, whether same-sex or heterosexual, is masturbation, [Carlin Ross, head of a feminist-centred sexual education charity] says.

“The absolute best way to improve your sex life is to improve your masturbation practice,” she says.

Ok, so that doesn't sound too bad, but, oh, no wait:

One of the biggest culprits for [the absence of "care, love, romance, pleasure, emotion and intensity" women feel with men] may be the amount of pornography made for and marketed to straight men [ ... ] It is not only heterosexual men who watch pornography, but the women I speak to who have slept with women and men note pornography’s negative influence in their experience of heterosexual sex.

So ... masturbation is "[t]he key to sexual satisfaction" and “The absolute best way to improve your sex life is to improve your masturbation practice," but not if it involves watching pornography.

So the kind of visual pornography preferred by men is not only a serious threat to society but a particularly serious threat to women, ranging from their sexual gratification - which, if you remember, negatively affects their mental health and well-being if they can't find it (who knew, right?), to their sanity and personal safety.

But the kind of literary pornography consumed overwhelmingly by women - that's not only absolutely normal, healthy and fine, but - somewhat conveniently - should be actively encouraged:

Ross also recommends engaging your mind in sexual fantasies and listening to erotica podcasts. Then there is copious “cliterature” and the boom in sex toys. In 2016, the online sex toy retailer Lovehoney recorded a 68% growth in profits (it is possible there was a Fifty Shades of Grey effect).**

Got that?

Visual stimulus is bad, bad, bad.*

However, sliding something that for all the world looks like a repurposed SS-20 into your secret garden while listening to Christian Grey, and I quote:

" ... Firstly, I don’t make love. I fuck… hard. Secondly, there’s a lot more paperwork to do, and thirdly, you don’t yet know what you’re in for. You could still run for the hills. Come, I want to show you my playroom.”

Oh, we're all good with that.

* I'm not denying that there is some truly heinous shit out there - porn actors, in my opinion, are modern day gladiators. And like their Roman counterparts, there's apparently quite a bit of horror involved ...

Title	"Do lesbians have better sex than straight women?" [Enjoy heterosexual relationships while they're still legal]
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Date	July 9, 2018 7:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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