I did the hard thing of asking my ex what I could do to be more appealing to other men. He said I don’t act cutesy and seem more like a professional. Well, I’m a recruiter talking to people all day. I do struggle to break out of normal conversation mode until after several times of meeting a guy. I also struggle to be flirtatious with a guy who isn’t flirty himself. I can flirt but either I forgot or if it’s not coming to me, I don’t know how. Help?