So my wife just sent me divorce papers via text. A little back story we work together and a few day ago she got into an argument with another coworker about something me and her have spoken about more than once. I told her to ignore the person because tbh it’s non of your business and it’s not beneficial to you or me for you to argue with them over that so ignore her. My wife is very opinionated and most times show little regard to any advice or input I give her. A few day ago at lunch the person I told her to ignore said something it was nothing tbh more than a oh I did this with my class etc etc my wife proceeded to start an argument and kept getting louder even when the other person was apologizing. I said to my wife ok baby done now she push me to the side and said no I’m not done and continue to go off I went over to her and tried to pull her away from the situation she push me off and started going off on me. I held her firmly again and said let’s go she started arguing with me out of embarrassment I took my bag and went home. Thing is she has embarrassed me on multiple occasions in the office once I bought lunch for us and I bought her a fruit juice just incase she’d like it and she made a big scene out of me getting her a juice. Saying she never asked for any juice etc etc and she don’t want it so I should throw it away. She’s the kind of person that whenever I get upset about something she gets mad at me and then make me apologize for being upset. It’s as if my feelings and emotions aren’t valid. The only way I’ll be able to get her to talk to me is if I buy her some kind of gift and do some grand gesture to make up to her and I’m the one upset with what she did. Sorry for the run on sentences I’ve been sad and crying for the past few days can’t bother to be grammatically correct right now. Today I came home to my laundry in the hallway and the dog laying in them while hers were done and were folded neatly.