Hello brothers, I'm the type of guy who likes to learn new things. I'm all about signing up for a class and learning a new hobby. I do BJJ, Lift, run, and do MMA on my spare time. I've been RP'ing/PUA'ing since '08. I'm 29, 190lbs, 5'10, 15% bodyfat. Of course, I can do better, and I try in one form or another five times a week.

I've had a bad experience with someone here immediately going "lift" instead of answering my question, so I'm prefacing with that. Please respect the scope of my mission and keep this focused on the interpersonal aspect side, and not the physical side. If you try to amog me with some stupid "just lift" shit, I will block you.

My GF was thinking about bartending, so I said "Stop talking about it, why don't you take a class?". She takes the class and is on her way to going about it.

I've noticed that a lot of my skills, lifestyles are rubbing off on her. She's learning how to eat clean, my red pill/dark triad/research habits, my workouts, etc... I'm going to improve this girl so much.

My two questions are 1) I have a very bad feeling about her bar tending. It's trouble, and I'll have to dread game on another level if it happens. I'm up for the challenge, but the odds increase that she will find a Chad and hamster an "accident" with him. My plan is to lower my investment from LTR to plate. What are your thoughts on the bar tending/her getting a bar tending job? I'd like advice. She is very pretty.

2) My knowledge has been honed since my weak days of white belt, pre 18, non lifting, non Pua, non nlp days. Tough and lonely days. I've come a long way to develop these skills personally, we've all been through the journey. I've realized I need to hide my knowledge. But I want my girl to improve and become fitter and hotter. Should I hide my skills? How should I go about hiding them?