What should I have done?

Darth_Antonius · 2017-12-14T07:17:08+00:00

My female "friends" had sent me over to her with a cheesy pick-up line.

Just spitballing here, but this sounds like a setup. Your female "friends" probably talked to the girl beforehand and set you up for a humiliation just for shits and giggles. Approaching a girl at the behest of your female friends is dumb to say the least. Regardless, even if this wasn't a setup, the girl you approached gave you a nuclear shit test which you failed miserably. I wouldn't even bother ever talking to that girl again. Lose the female friends too, they just threw you to the wolves and got a hearty laugh out of it. Unless you're fucking them, there's no point.

As for how you should have reacted, see the comment u/DrBrockStar made.

DrBrockStar · 2017-12-14T10:19:23+00:00

Was this in school or something? When a girl wants to act crazy you have two options:

Look over at her friend and say "Whats your friends problem"
Amplify and make her look stupid and be carefree "NO I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU, YOU PSYCHO" while you walk away

But this heavily depends on context. Pick up lines are stupid and thats the kind of response your looking to get when you use them

Nomfwic · 2017-12-14T09:05:55+00:00

Golden rule: don't take dating advice from girls.

As to the girl who screamed... agree and amplify or sy something ridiculous to make her look like the fool.

Also work on your smv. She called you a nerd for a reason. That reason probably being you look like one.

empatheticapathetic · 2017-12-14T10:01:05+00:00

She wants Chad to hit on her. You weren't Chad and she is entitled to Chad god dammit. So she got angry that you challenged her own perception of her SMV.

If she shouted at me to walk away id probably get my camera phone out and sit down next to her just to see what happens.

Fuck her, no one gets to act like that.

yeahnahimgood · 2017-12-14T10:56:58+00:00

God damn that’s cold

NewAna · 2017-12-14T13:44:57+00:00

Few options here

1.Don’t react at all. Once she’s done shouting say “you must have a bad day, this will cheer you up”and u give her a wink and do a silly dance (call it the nerd dance) or do a funny facial expression.

Go back to your sit then come back with drinks/sweet/mint depending on the environment. Say “this will cheer you up”. If she rejects you again she will look like a bitch and you still got back your social value by being professional to a mean girl. Your female friends will notice it.

Do not be apologetic.

I had my fair share of nasty experiences as well ;) Don’t be bitter and MGTOW.

DadOnDabs · 2017-12-14T22:54:01+00:00

How old are you?

1Pink1Stink · 2017-12-14T07:21:16+00:00

LMFAO

Title	What should I have done?
Author	ManchurianDinnerDate
Upvotes	7
Comments	32
Date	December 14, 2017 6:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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