After my divorce becoming final in August of last year and getting my house awarded have finally made the place my own. Did some inside painting and removal of household goods and clean sweep of items which she threatened to take but left behind. Updated the man cave and added fireplace wood stove insert in living room - got rid of all the spare bedroom furniture and master - found some nice pieces on Craigslist’s.

The QDRO lawyer finally got our retirement plan orders drafted and they are now in review by my lawyer- it’s still difficult to see how it will all works as each plan operates differently as we had worked for a couple of companies but some of the division worked out in my favor. Still ex is making out fine.🤨

Today she attended the next door neighbor’s football party as she is still friends with the wife. I was sitting in my living room and could see out the window across the lawn and she was gesturing towards my house with her arm in the air and was rubbing her index finger and thumb together!💲💲.

What a crazy idiot!

So glad we are divorced!

Things will get better - but you go through hell to get there. Wishing all on this sub to hang in there through the roller coaster ride of divorce. You will survive and come out a better person.