Gift for family member that sexually molested me as a child

PlatinumBeetle · 2019-12-11T04:15:31+00:00

Does an adolescent strip teasing for a child count as molestation even if there was no touching? I'd imagine it does and probably should but this is a new use of the terminology to me. I had thought something very different happened at first.

I was also molested in ways that didn't make me feel like a victim. Also by an older (half) sibling. I mostly just remember it as something embarrassing I did as a kid once. It clearly wasn't something appropriate.

And yeah, she sounds like a big fat hypocrite about sexual ethics in general. Decides based on gender. I wouldn't expect anyone who supports #metoo to admit that females can be just as bad as males. Let alone a female with a known history of aggressive or ethically questionable sexual behavior of her own.

Egalitarianwhistle · 2019-12-11T18:53:41+00:00

The hypocrisy of seeing her as a hardline #believewomen metoo-er would make me angry too. I was sexually assaulted by several self identified feminists from a liberal arts college. Things like an acquaintance waking me up with fellatio when I passed out drunk at a party. Another girlfriend woke me up with condom less sex even though I had always insisted on using a condom.

Small things, but when I see the hypocrisy if them using #metoo and #believewomen and advocating against #rapeculture online it makes me sick to my stomach.

When I reached out to talk to them about this since #metoo, they became angry with me. They have this image of themselves as SJW's and being a rapist doesnt fit that image.

mikesteane · 2019-12-11T03:59:36+00:00

This was something fairly minor that happened twenty-five years ago. It's time to drop your baggage and move on. She might not even remember.

Title	Gift for family member that sexually molested me as a child
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Upvotes	13
Comments	23
Date	December 11, 2019 3:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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