When Women Buy Sex, IT'S GOOD! - Regarding Men #38

AbysmalDescent · 2019-11-13T15:15:32+00:00

Personally, I feel like if society wants to maintain strict gender roles on men, or if it wants to keep enabling/encouraging the many women who strongly enforce those roles and expectations on men when it comes to sex, dating and romantic value, then there should be some steps taken to insure that men have the tools to live up to those roles/expectations placed on them by women(since, obviously,society doesn't seem to have any interest at all in addressing toxic femininity or the many ways in which women perpetuate and enforce gender roles on men). If you don't, then men will just continue to fall behind and get themselves caught in a catch-22, where they can't get the experience they need to be successful because they don't have the experience to be successful.

If society also cares about men's mental or emotional health, then they should also care about their sexual health as well. Sexual desolation, exclusion and vilification are not really conductive to a positive outlook on one's self, or men feeling valued, equal, safe or desired. Male disenfranchisement is a systemic problem, and seemingly on the rise, and yet the only solutions that people seem to be interested in pursuing is further vilification, emasculation, delegitimization and criminalization of men/boys.

Take sex work for example. In a perfect world, male "incels" and "kissless virgins" would have proper support and ressources to get them to where they need to be to find some level of success within the society that they live in. Yet, this is something where men have to face a great deal of stigma, as well as social, personal, financial and legal risks to gain access to. They have to expose themselves to all kinds of criminal elements, as well as incriminate themselves(in canada, soliciting is illegal for the buyer, not the seller), to gain access to sex-workers(if they can even afford it).

Why aren't government sanctioned, or even subsidized, sexual health clinics a thing? A place where people could not only go to get advice on good reproductive practice or get themselves tested for STIs, but a place they could go to seek out sex-workers who would be specifically specialized in dealing with the sexless, and able to provide a more compassionate, empathetic, patient, legal, safe, clean and hands-on approach to sex education and therapy(this approach would also provide safe, clean and legal employment opportunities, and validity, for sex-workers). Wouldn't that be the first, or best, step to take to not only get them to a place they need to be to compete with women's increasing demands/entitlements but also to a place where they are confident and content about their own sex lives?

Title	When Women Buy Sex, IT'S GOOD! - Regarding Men #38
Author	TheAndredal
Upvotes	18
Comments	8
Date	November 13, 2019 8:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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