I've been a long time poster over at r/survivinginfidelity and just learned about this group.

My 14 year anniversary is coming up June 4, but her one year affair-iversary is June 1. We have thee kids and 50/50 custody. Divorce is going to be finalized August 15. Currently she pays me child support(just got my first payment last Thursday.)

I'll have a bunch of questions for you fellas when I can get off mobile. Until then, Happy Memorial Day!