What do you think of the men who defend women who fuck underage boys? (“Where was SHE when I was a kid?”)

Lethn · 2019-05-13T10:17:23+00:00

In order to defend this shit you have to genuinely believe in it to some degree otherwise these lot who would defend women who do this would realise they're being complete shit heads and defending a lot of abusers and at best people taking advantage of their positions to sleuth for easy dick. The only reason these borderline paedophiles are targeting teenage boys is because real men won't sleep with them or be with them for long and they know that the teenagers will be way easier to deal with.

Now I think you should be very specific here though, you said 13 - 14 year old, those are still teenagers and as anyone who is actually a guy here will know they do have sexual thoughts. What pisses me off in that situation though is that these very same scumbags who run around defending it would be howling for blood if a guy even touched a 13 - 14 year old girl nevermind had sex with her.

Then you have the truly fucked up individuals who actually defend outright paedophilia and women going after boys even younger than that acting as if it's no big deal. Interestingly though, I have seen less and less of that lately and I wonder if it's because they've faced such a backlash over their fucked up responses could be wrong though as I've been focused on other things.

bkrugby78 · 2019-05-13T12:37:33+00:00

Saying things like "I wish that happened when I was his age" is something a sexually mature adult is saying.

Sure, as a grown man now, objectively, having a woman have sex with me as a young teenager sounds great. As a developing teen, this would have been very bad for me. However, it's all moot since it never happened and can never happen (to the person saying it).

It's all about the perspective.

Now, the problem is, these types of comments, while actually harmless in isolation, on the backdrop of society, do a great deal of damage to people that think this is actually ok. It weakens the argument of a young male needing to be protected sexually or otherwise and hurts the overall men rights movement.

fgrsentinel · 2019-05-13T12:10:13+00:00

To add to this and make it worse: Kansas courts once tried a 16 year old babysitter for raping the 12 year old she was watching. They let her go because she was a minor, but when she revealed that she was pregnant, she went after the boy the court acknowledged she raped for child support, but refused to sentence her for, and the courts forced him to pay child support before he was even old enough to work.

This isn't the only time courts in the US have forced male rape victims too young to consent to pay child support for their rapists child and most of the time the courts don't even send the rapist to jail in these cases.

duhhhh · 2019-05-13T15:49:50+00:00

Rape fantasies are one of the most popular fantasies to women. However, the women who are raped in real life usually feel badly violated and have a horrible experience. The fantasy is good. Role playing is good. Reality is bad.

I think this phenomena is the male equivalent.

Rockbottom503 · 2019-05-13T11:46:15+00:00

It's like people who consistently say 'I want to be rich'. They genuinely mean what they're saying - they want to be rich BUT they do not understand the consequences required or the trappings. They don't necessarily want to be the one putting in 100 hour plus weeks at work or risking their life savings or family home to get there..... They just want the end result; the pay off. Also, they fail to realise that people generally live to their means so you trade your kia for a ferrari and move from a little house in the suburbs to somewhere upscale..... This takes maintenance so you go from working 100 hours a week to 120 and only being rich because you don't have the time to spend anything. Similarly to a guy who has never been in the position of being sexually assaulted, they see the pay off 'sex'; which can only ever be a positive thing in their mind. They don't see the emotional trauma and how it destroys your future relationships, self esteem etc.

2019-05-13T14:22:36+00:00

What do I think of people who defend women who molest underage male victims?

They are disgusting.

mgtowolf · 2019-05-13T15:26:58+00:00

It's part of the whole women are virtuous, men are pigs mentality. Most men know they had sexual thoughts about the hot teachers, and when they see a hot teacher fucking a boy, they think they would have felt like they hit the lottery if it happened to them at the time.

Teenage girls are just as horny as males, and if you were close enough friends with girls that they talked freely around you, you would know they say the same kinds of things about the attractive men teachers at the school. If your school even had any attractive men at the point you went to school, male teachers are not exactly as common as they once were. Yet, if the man teacher fucked one of those girls lusting after him, the mob mentality would be calling for his blood. They understand suddenly that it is wrong for an adult, especially one that has authority over a minor, to have any kind of sexual relationship with them. It's just as unethical and predatory when a woman does it, but a lot of people fail to recognize it. It feels like the tide is changing somewhat though, which is good.

2019-05-13T10:06:52+00:00

Additional question: Do you believe the guys who say that they would love to be in the boy’s shoes at his age?

Of course I do. I have no reason not to...

I have a problem with men who support the woman who commits the crime and don't follow it up with a, "where was she when I was a kid".

2019-05-13T17:28:50+00:00

I am actually torn on this one.

The year I was 15, I was molested by my friend’s mother, as well as by my French teacher during tutoring. I personally considered both of them to be attractive, I didn’t fight back when it happened, and at least part of me wanted it to occur with both women. Sure, I was out of my league, shy, and thus deferred by default to these adult women, so I was pretty easily manipulated. In addition, I was coming at it from a 15 year old’s perspective, with no real knowledge of how it could potentially harm me later.

In addition, I’ve dated at least two women who actively sought out sex partners in their teens, including adult men from their local communities. One seduced her 16 year old neighbour when she was 12, because she developed early and had a ridiculously high sex drive. Her parents put her on the pill just to calm her down. Neither of the two considered their seductions to be ‘wrong’ and thought of it as a normal part of of teens stretching the envelope a bit. If anything, they were the aggressors, rather than the other way around.

When I was 28, a 14 year old girl that no one could have pegged for 14 came onto me, very aggressively. I turned her down because I sussed out from her word choice and diction that she was young, and dodged that bullet, but she was definitely the aggressor. She didn’t consider it a big deal at all, and had already slept with a 32 year old man earlier in the year. Yikes!

I don’t personally consider 15-16 to be children, even if I don’t consider them to fully be adults, either, which is why I’m waffling.

Crazycatgirl16 · 2019-05-14T00:09:37+00:00

I'm torn. On one hand it's absolutely disgusting that someone would defend those women but on the other hand maybe some of them have actually been raped themselves and using humor is their way of dealing with it...? I dunno maybe I'm overthinking it.

HereWeGoAgainTJ · 2019-05-14T09:15:30+00:00

I hate pedophiles and any dumbfuck that tries to rug sweep or normalize their perverse behaviors. Full stop.

FCSD · 2019-05-17T11:20:00+00:00

I despise them.

Lion_amongst_gods · 2019-05-13T11:28:01+00:00

What's your take on men who'd support gender-neutral punishment (prison term or whatever) for her and say "Where was she when I was a kid?"..?

You can uphold justice and still make jokes.

Title	What do you think of the men who defend women who fuck underage boys? (“Where was SHE when I was a kid?”)
Author	brian0123
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Date	May 13, 2019 9:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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