thank you everyone for contributions, stories, experiences ... this is life altering for me, our kids, my ex their mom, extended family etc...be strong stay strong.

after periods of bad and good, nonsense and drama, etc. and after much $$ to both sides attorney, i am at a place where the other side seems to be willing to see some sense, minimize collateral damage. judge TRO gave me 50/50

so I am sensing we can come to put something together which will help me save attorneys and also streamline.

before i schedule time with my attorney, does anyone have any resources or guides to craft a complete settlement where someone can fill out under each term or have templates...would save thousands i estimate if i can start on it first instead of having the attorney craft a brand new one custom to my case and instead i could do that with a template

or any ideas, suggestions. etc