Alex.datepsych on Shit Tests and how stupid the concept tends to be (Alex is a new dating coach with a website based on real science called datepsychology.com, i urge everybody to check out his content)

propyl21 · 2022-08-03T08:32:16+00:00

He gets it. The only thing I see that's missing a note is:

You are interacting disproportionately with antisocial women, and/or women who don't really like you

There are also women like myself who are in-between, and who are normally prosocial, easy to get along with, agreeable, and open to being picked up, BUT will act antisocial to get him go go away if his bullshit starts to show. I have zero tolerance for a few things and he will get this side of me if he doesn't knock it off after a few subtle warnings (and won't let me walk away). His starting vibe would have to be way off for me to start interactions that way. I'm a firm believer you catch more guys with honey than vinegar.

RatDontPanic · 2022-08-03T14:16:45+00:00

Wow. Mind blown. Datepsych is the most real-talker I've seen in a while.

GankdalfTheDankest · 2023-02-23T15:56:33+00:00

To me I've found a nice middle ground to this whole concept. In order to invest as little care as possible almost all "shit tests" warrant 1 of the following 3 responses.

Glad you think so
Thanks for noticing
Why do you like guys who do X so much?

Pretty much universal and a nice easy way to brush it all off with ease. And then you move on to the next one lol

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