Been chatting up this girl on Tinder. Id like to post the logs here and get some Feedback plus a tip on how to proceed. No screens, since i have to translate it from german to english. "F" 25 will be her and "M" 27 will be me.
So we matched and she only had a pic of her lying in bed with some jeans on, that werent zipped up. stomach skin showing but no face.
M: Hey, werent you able to zip up these pants?
F: Honestly? These arent mine but from a friend i was on vacation with. So there were not fitting me (2x Smileyface)
M: Sounds logical, i would have helped to get them off you for sure. Tell me what are you were doing there (besides laying in the bed 1x Smirksmiley)
F: It was in Spain 2x Smiley. Tell me more about you!
M: Oh well, im wearing jeanssize XX, but im able to zip them up. Ask me anything else in Whatsapp NUMBER, after i get out of the shower.
Switched to Whatsapp then
F: I should shower too blablalbla
M: some smalltalk blablala
F: blabla, im studying to become a lawyer with Smileys
M: Send me some pics of you, i want to know you look Smirksmiley
F: sends 3 Pics + "Im not a selfie queen" + "it would have been nice if you said please"
M: Im not showing remorse Ms. Judge. Submit your Verdict PLEASE Smirksmiley
F: Im not submitting my verdict yet, you know more about me than i know about you. You got Pictures of me! Evidence gathering not completed.
I take this as a cue that she wants to know more about me so i send this
M: New evidence found. Im Studying XX with YY but you have to guess what YY is.
F: Shes guessing and more blalbla with Smileys
M: Listen, i find you sympathetic. We are going on a date. But not until next year, since im full this week. I will contact you, ok?
already 1min later she responds with 3 separate messages instead of a longer one like before.
F: Haha so you are just deciding that? F: Well. Deal. F: If i dont forget about you till then 3x Smiley
M: Im off. Good night.
F: Good night Smiley.
Texting started on 27th and finished on 28th. I did not contact her yet. I kept my texts shorter than hers and took more time to answer than her. I think the key part in this conversation is me not apologizing for asking for pics but flipping it on her, right?
I want to proceed by texting her maybe on the 1st or 2nd of january to set up the date. In the meantime should i do no contact or contact her slightly? Thanks for your input guys
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