Isn't the phrase "women throw themselves at him" kind of exaggerated cliché?

Well, could anyone provide link on youtube video where women actually throw themselves at good looking guy? Because even this hard-abs mofo Connor Murphy have to do first step every single time. I simply don't believe that when a guy is 9/10 or 10/10 all he has to do is sit on the bench and read a book. Women passing by sure will give him a glance, but no way girl would do first step like ask him for his number or just ask him what is he reading. What I'm saying is that even when you're very very very good looking man, you still have to do first step.