Question for you straight guys

Asatmaya · 2023-04-04T21:56:18+00:00

Emily had never had penetrative sex... while they were fooling around, John slid inside of her without asking

...and this is where I call bullshit.

OK, women lose their hymens in various ways, including accidents and menstruation, and yes, some women are just naturally bigger/looser than others, but my (granted, 30-year-old) experiences with young women was always something of a struggle at first, even with fingers.

Either John has a pencil-dick, Emily doesn't count penetrative masturbation as sex, or this is just a wind-up. Add in the question as to how they got naked and into a practical position for intercourse (especially with a virgin!) when they were just "fooling around," and this stinks to high heaven.

Is "Emily" saying this to disclaim responsibility for her own decision, and just practicing her story on her friend?

BetterOffCamping · 2023-04-04T21:51:02+00:00

Story sounds sus, especially if the hymen was intact, which was not mentioned by the time I stopped reading.

However, reality gets very blurry when in the throes of lust and sensory arousal. So I guess it is possible.

AvailableCandidate89 · 2023-04-04T21:56:24+00:00

You forgot that women never have any accountability. So if anything happened and she at any point didn't like that, it's the man's fault and he should be punished for not managing her agency properly.

Fuzzy_Department2799 · 2023-04-04T22:00:51+00:00

Emily is full of it and feels guilty for getting laid before marriage. Someone other than her and her own weakness to control herself has to be to blame.

ElectronicBoss2845 · 2023-04-04T22:08:41+00:00

If she had lube or she was wet you could put it in, however without her knowing there’s no way.

My credibility is I have sex with women often. I would never attempt to slide in without them knowing or even know how that situation would come up. But I know from having sex that it doesn’t just slide in, she needs to be wet or have lubrication/spit.

Title	Question for you straight guys
Author	lumpynose
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	April 4, 2023 9:29 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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