RedPill, what is the a cautionary tale you tell to your fellow Bros/sons to make sure they don't make the same mistake you or a friend made?

ilike2partyhowaboutu · 2014-03-04T22:30:22+00:00

Don't ever date a single mom.

The father of his own kids left for a reason.

robesta · 2014-03-04T23:17:49+00:00

Women don't change. I married the first semi hot woman who I was regularly fucking after college. I didn't think it was relevant that she fucked 36+ guys between the ages of 18-22.

Things were fine for 5 years. Then she started fucking around with a dude (I didn't know at the time). I deployed to Afghanistan and she fucked around with 3 other dudes. I found out a year after I got back.

Here's the kicker, "You weren't emotionally available to me. It wasn't about sex with those guys."

Now I'm paying 2k a month in child support to her. At least I'm free now. Life is good.

TL;DR- I thought she was a whore with a heart of gold, turns out she was a whore with a regular whore's heart.

Kenny Powers

Sturmgeist781 · 2014-03-04T20:45:43+00:00

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Cyralea · 2014-03-05T15:52:55+00:00

Never become complacent, or think that a woman will stay with you unconditionally. You're being evaluated day by day, against every other male she encounters. No, the competition never ends. Keep your value high at all times to ensure she never strays.

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randomdude600 · 2014-03-05T15:54:28+00:00

Don't ever move in with your girlfriend. I'm sure getting married would be an even bigger headache but seriously unless you tolerate this woman enough to marry her don't live with her.

If you want a taste of what domestic life would be with her go camping together for a couple days and pay close attention to how she behaves herself keeping in mind your frame advantage since you are the one leading her on the trip (I'd hope) does she pull her own weight and make herself useful or is she constantly letting you carry her, does she complain a lot or is she positive and up-beat.

Don't give her too much credit, assume she's going to be childish and emotional about any issue and take precautions, many times she won't and it'll be great but the time she goes full retard when you were trusting her to be adult about things will be a huge kick in the pants. This leaves blue-pill men scratching their heads trying to figure out what the hell they did.

When I first lived with my ex we had a crazy landlord that decided out of the blue to cancel our laundry privileges (in his basement with a locked door to get down there) she freaked out and was an anxious wreck (well she was anxious in general anyway) She decide she wanted to talk to the landlord thinking she could appeal to him through her wymyn powerz. I sent her over with a recorder in her pocket. She came back an hour later in tears and started accosting me for everything the landlord told her I had done without giving me a chance to explain anything. Just wailing at me. That was pretty much the beginning of the end I felt betrayed and I lost frame in her eyes big time, we managed to scrape on for another year after that but nothing was ever like the early days of constant passionate sex and domestic bliss.

It was all my fault because I assumed she'd be able to handle herself like an adult. Hear the sociopath's bullshit, come back laugh about it with me and go on building our case for the landlord and tenant board. Things had been so good, I trusted her so much I'd have never guessed in a million years that she'd have reacted the way she did.

TL:DR if you don't believe a woman is more like a child than an adult let me give you an advanced "I told you so" for the next time your scene blows up because you trusted your woman to behave like an adult but didn't.

TheWillOfDeezNuts · 2014-03-05T17:28:07+00:00

It is scary how close to home these stories hit. I'm 27 now, and have had 3 girlfriends so far and now I'm just dating around. Have had my fare share of: Complainers, Bi-polar (blaming their reasoning on anxiety), and Cheaters. It sucks, because I do want to have a family some day, but so many women are just getting worse and worse as days go by.

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