Am i wasting time being friends with girls?

SirKolbath · 2018-01-05T23:43:50+00:00

"Women have girlfriends and they have boyfriends. If you are not fucking her, you are her girlfriend." - Rollo Tomassi.

SirKolbath's corollary: "You are either fucking a girl or you are orbiting a girl, but you are not doing both."

Read the sidebar, son. Lift, and game girls. Any girl that gives you the LJBF speech should be told, "That's not what I'm offering. I have enough friends," and soft nexted.

SkrttttSkrttt · 2018-01-05T23:56:39+00:00

Being friends with women can be beneficial. Don’t be friends with women who you want to fuck or are sexually attracted too, that’s the mistake. Anybody who tells you not to be friends with a woman on here is completely retarded and has no idea what they are talking about.

Being friends with women who work as bartenders or waitresses in my local area gets me better and faster service. Being friends with women at work has helped secure promotions and expand my network. Being friends with women has opened up new social circles to me and have allowed me access to other women who I have fucked.

Being friends doesn’t mean orbiting a women, talking to her everyday, texting her memes, doing nice guy shit.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-01-05T23:46:05+00:00

In my experience it depends on the girl. Never get advice from one. And don’t be “friends” with someone you want to fuck. But if you’ve got shared interests (she’s skis with you, you mountain bike together) well it’s more fun then being alone.

TheAverageOutlier · 2018-01-05T23:40:35+00:00

I as a guy will tell you one thing no girl would. Go read the sidebar

BestSC86 · 2018-01-06T02:25:41+00:00

No...being friends with women can actually help you with preselection and comfort as someone who is trustworthy enough for other women to be around.

You have to realize that most of the venom here comes as the result of the reality the dudes ended up here after bad experiences trying to nice their ways into hot girl's panties by buying them shit, doing their homework\chores and kissing the girl's asses in a unattractive way. So they blame all of womanhood for their tormentor not shedding her panties for his effort.

Now they have gone to the opposite extreme of treating women like the enemy who has to be destroyed either by vicious fucking, borderline abuse or total pariah status.

Truth is that a fairly large segment of residents here really fucking HATE women for the most part except that they have vaginas and assholes into which to stick their wee-wees....ignore those fucks.

Think for a second do you think that natural pussy slayers, who are fucking 10 women a week, are not hanging with girls who don't meet their fuck-meter status...hell fucking no, they have made them their own set of orbiters who run around wishing that the natural pussy-slayer would give them some of his magic dick...you will not find that guy around here very often. That ever occurs to the bitter crowd who can barely contain their hatred long enough to fool the girl into getting naked and having sex.

Treat them as your orbiters....and use them to learn about women and scrounge up more targets.

[deleted] · 2018-01-06T06:39:21+00:00

Depends on your purpose. If you are niceguying your way into pussy you are wasting your time. If you are orbiting you are wasting your time. If you expect them to view friendship as men do you are wasting your time.

It would be a rare woman that could resist trying to put you into those roles.

Being friendly is fine. Being friends on terms that are to your benefit is fine. This is significantly more rare than you have been led to believe.

demilitarizdsm · 2018-01-06T10:22:41+00:00

Quick note to go against the norm. I struck out with a super cute shy girl. She told me she was too nice, said she had trouble saying no and with conflict. I fucked up my approach, no problem, onto the next thing. But later I realized I could still get her to do all types of friend shit bc of her submissivness. Use her to get other plates on dread when I'm visiting her town. Find something like that and you might get something out of it.

Title	Am i wasting time being friends with girls?
Author	MeatySmurfProlapse
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	January 5, 2018 11:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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