Is crying out of happiness unattractive?

rbkforrestr · 2023-04-21T00:18:49+00:00

‘Women find crying out of sandness a turn off.’

No, they do not. Don’t make generalized statements that lump all women together. Women are their own people with their own preferences.

There is a huge disparity between how red-pilled men think women perceive men, and how the vast majority of women actually perceive men.

Surveys in the past have actually indicated that 97% of women consider a man crying strong and healthy.

Who is telling you otherwise? Who is telling you women don’t want you to cry? It’s men. Not women. Certainly not most women.

I’ve seen my partner cry countless times in the four years we’ve been together, when he’s been sad or angry or frustrated or happy. It has never once turned me off. That type of emotional closeness and vulnerability is essential to me.

HaveALittleGrace · 2023-04-20T23:58:43+00:00

I don't mind crying of any sort. Stop thinking Red Pill is the be all, end all of "truth". It means you're in touch with your emotions, can control them better, and therefore are less of a liability from a safety perspective. If you were my lover, I'd see it as you being Hella happy and OMG I am blessed enough to be around this man while he shows me his creamy center nougat (not for real, I'm just trying to be funny). Men crying can be amazing sometimes. 🤍

NightRainOf24August · 2023-04-21T00:59:46+00:00

Alright I am leaving this sub is stupid

luridlurker · 2023-04-21T00:49:00+00:00

Women find crying out of sadness a turn off.

Genuine emotion with an awareness of what others are going through before you lean on them too hard is a building block of a decent relationship. If you can't cry in sadness in front of your partner you don't have a partner.

But what about happy crying?

Sure... again, genuine emotion with awareness of what others are going through is foundational. Context matters: If you're crying out of happiness right in front of your friend who's just lost a love one, you're an asshole.

Title	Is crying out of happiness unattractive?
Author	zyzzspirit
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	April 20, 2023 11:38 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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