Today is day 13. 13 days ago I came home and my wife told me that after 10 years, she couldn’t do it anymore. She was sick of having the conversation that I need to do more. That I need to be a better me. I’m not mad, I’m more pissed at myself for just brushing so many small things to the side than anything else. I’ve started therapy and doing things that I enjoy doing while still being home to take care of shit. She moved moved in with her sister and has pretty much stopped talking to me all together to focus on herself because “we need to do this apart if there’s any chance at saving what’s left”. I’m starting to lose hope that she wants to fix our life and this is the end. What’s the longest you’ve been separated and successfully mended your marriage.