I think the reason the red pill sorta clicked with me is my relationship with my mom has always been bad ever since 2005 when she married a man who me and my brother hate because he has put hands on us in the past and constantly verbally abuses us.

GlassOfSkimMilf · 2023-05-24T01:30:56+00:00

First, I'm sorry for what you have been through and are currently going through.

I think one of the biggest harms of Red Pill is teaching men about abusive women in a way that makes them all seem abusive. It's not a true or false situation, it's a spectrum thing. Every woman might get upset at something they do, but not every woman will exploit others so thoroughly as an abusive woman.

A woman might raise her voice if she's upset or exhausted, but not every one will go and key your car, rip out the seat padding, and destroy your brand new gaming PC. A woman might show other emotions than caring all the time, but not all will break your soul into pieces and feed them to your dog.

I am truly sorry you're in an abusive situation, but there are way better resources than Red Pill to learn about the true nature of abusers and how to tell the difference between one just having strong emotions and one that will destroy you. One I always recommend for victims of male abusers is Why Does He Do That?

There is a free version on archive.org for you to review. I think it's worth a read for anyone really, but it's meant for their victims. Hopefully some abusers find their way out with it as well. Hopefully that gives you something actionable towards your recovery OP. Best wishes to you.

Green-Measurement-53 · 2023-05-24T03:29:18+00:00

I definitely understand. And actually I believe the relationship I had with my mother factored into why I accepted some of the red pill ideas myself. We have always had a bad relationship even when I was a young child. It involved me being physically grabbed by her, her constantly arguing and screaming at me and me running away. She was also emotionally unavailable and excepting the three years I was homeschooled she was distant when it came to my schooling and interests. The last two years are the first two years thing have been civil between us although she is still emotionally unavailable, ignores my interests and schooling and is prone to argue if a contentious topic is brought up.

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