Folks - swallowed the redpill a couple of months back after a girl I thought I was serious with for a year - talks between us even went in the direction of marriage - suddenly shunned me and moved out of town for a better job.

I am not superstitious but I met her on Tinder in a different country back in 2016, found out we are from the same town, found out our families knew each other and we were seeing each other for almost a year. Things came crashing down in October last year when she said she doesn't want to lead me anymore into liking her more and she decided to part. Though I found it hard, I moved on and eventually realized she must have used me to help her with find a job using my connections.

I got over it, or if I may think so. I was on red pill since then. I hit the gym religiously, lifted weights and was largely ok. Felt better and started spinning plates again on Tinder.

I was travelling for work today, and while I was casually swiping on tinder in a different town, I saw her profile and I just froze. Hard truth of life as it is. I think this has been the worst day for me in a few months to find out that she had just used to me to find a better job and now she's in the market looking for new mates.

Sad truth. AWALT.