Your fatty gf

mrbonsoir · 2018-01-16T16:23:53+00:00

Always Remember: You won’t pull them up , they will drag you down.

This happened to an acquaintance of mine and literally hadn’t seen him for 6 months - he was fit & healthy before and afterwards he was as big of whale as his girlfriend.

I couldn’t believe it was the same guy.

2gunsgetsome · 2018-01-16T17:53:17+00:00

Yes.

My GF was pretty but a little chubby when I met her. Passed my boner test, but not the hottest girl I've dated. She fucks exactly the way I like and adds lots of other value to my life, so here we are.

Hotter, skinnier chicks frequently flirt with me, especially during "shirt-off season". GF mateguards like crazy and makes sure her dress and grooming are always on point (and she tells me this, to get my validation). That was satisfying her hamster for a while. She also knows a major reason I got divorced is that my ex stopped giving a fuck about her personal presentation (similar to /u/Herdsengineers, but without the dyed hair).

Pretty much as soon as we started dating, her diet (nutrition) got better because I like to cook and eat healthy. I do bulk/cut cycles and GF knows this too. After about 8 months of dating and being bombarded with constant pre-selection, she started a workout program and asked to "cut with me" this time. So now it's on, she's crushing it, and really happy about her progress.

Short answer: Yes, deciding on her own to get hotter is a possible result of dread. Just remember that you can't MAKE anyone do anything they don't choose to do, and you can't get mad when they don't respond the exact way you want.

Herdsengineers · 2018-01-16T16:32:06+00:00

my LTR is making herself workout. says "i was tired, didn't want to, but did it anyway because you're sticking with your workouts." i just look at it as leading us both to be healthy by setting a good example to follow.

my ex-wife on the other hand, before i was into lifting, i was into martial arts. trained aikido, juijutsu, kendo, etc. 3-4 times a week. it kept me really fit and trim. my ex-wife (before she was ex-) gave no shits at all about trying to keep up and gained a bunch of weight. and openly talked about how she didn't care. of course, she wouldn't shower regularly, only wore sweats and dump clothes, hair was usually a mess. turned into the proverbial cat that wouldn't clean itself and just looked like hell. she still looks like hell, only with dark pink dyed hair (and a bad dye job at that), like a big round ball with appendages sticking out, no feminine form at all.

basically, if a woman cares about being with you and wants to stay with you, she'll do what she needs to do to make it happen. she'll keep up and follow you if following leads her to places that are good for her too.

if she doesn't care, she won't bother. so do your thing, and let if she follows or not be a filter for if you keep her or next her.

RedOkra · 2018-01-16T18:49:32+00:00

I found a girl who basically just immediately did whatever I say. She was fat as fuck tho. I spun her as a plate for something like 4 months. All the others dropped off cuz they were annoying compared to her. I told her she needs to lose weight. So she did. She lost like 70 pounds. She's still chubby, but cooks every meal, cleans everything, bjs and anal on demand. It's been like this for over a year while she's been living with me. There were a few red flags at the beginning, but she's was so well-behaved and added value to my life, I ignored them. Maybe it'll fuck me later.

zboo1h · 2018-01-16T22:40:48+00:00

Patrice O'Neal said that women need to either be "Hoe'd up" or "Hoe'd down", depending on the woman.

Hoeing DOWN is basically negging and shit, treating a bitch like she ain't shit because she ain't.

Hoeing UP is what you're talking about, and my answer is why the fuck bother?

MattyAnon · 2018-01-17T12:27:41+00:00

Anyone here have or had fatty who turned to fit or at least started healthy lifestyle after you went full trp and raised the smv?

There was a girl I told I couldn't date because she's too fat. She got in shape. For a while. Totally not fucking worth it.

Or basically would the fatty try to raise her smv to not lose ~his~ [her] rp man?

haha they don't do this. when they have commitment they get entitled, when you might leave they blame you. they do not think "I should lose some fucking fat" unless you run dread hard.

it is NOT worth it. she loses weight between boyfriends, not during.

Title	Your fatty gf
Author	mrHappyPotatoe
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	January 16, 2018 4:14 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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