I'm more of a hit it and quit it kind of guy so I don't have the greatest deal of experience with post-sex game.

The next day after sleeping with a girl I find it hard to calibrate how much I should be hugging, kissing, hand-holding etc with her. I'll normally have breakfast or coffee with her, have a bit of banter, and then hug her goodbye. However, they have told me that I'm stand-offish after sex and seem to expect some higher level of intimacy the next day.