Guy friend

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-01-21T05:41:05+00:00

A. Don't be paranoid.

B. That said, the "guy friend" of this type is ~99.99% trying to bone the chick he is "friends" with.

C. Point out to your GF that said guy friend wants to bone her. Then proceed as normal. You are allowed to make up one faggy nickname for him, and be mildly dismissive when she brings him up, but do not overdo.

D. She will DENY that said guy friend is trying to bone her. But we know the truth, don't we? Eventually he will TRY to bone her and she will freak out and come running back to you. Give him enough rope and he will hang himself.

E. Be prepared to dump the chick if she does something you don't like. She's not yours, it's just your turn.

RageNPlay · 2018-01-21T05:51:59+00:00

First things first,

Dudes not a mutual friend anymore if he’s making moves on your girl and he knows you both are in a relationship.

Second, mate guarding (bringing this up to her or anyone else) makes you look like a pussy.. good thing is you know that.

So what’s the approach? Be indifferent, do you own thing, take up a new hobby that takes you away from your gf for a bit. Not saying you soft next her or anything, just be a little less available and when you two are together do couple shit and fuck her well. Basically, nothing should change.

You can’t control people being attracted to each other. Always remember she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. As long as you focus on yourself and your own improvement, lifting, hobbies, sidebar, and being the good little boyfriend when the comfort test calls, you’ll do be doing everything you can to be a magnet in your relationship.

On the other hand who cares if she has an emotional tampon to tell about her day?

Sidebar
Lift
She’s not yours, it’s just your turn

These things combine to not just make you a better and happier person, but also have a flip-side of making you standout.

all4gibs · 2018-01-21T05:56:45+00:00

do the opposite of what your gut is telling you to do in this situation

this is especially important at the beginning. let him make moves on her. do what you can to allow her to be in situations where she could choose him. she will most likely come running to you, and might even bring him up as an “annoying friend”. if she finds that he is around her more than she wants him to be, she will start to see him as even less value than she already sees him

it’s important to allow her plenty of space to stray at the beginning. you use this opportunity to see if she’s even worth spinning as a plate for more than a week or two

Title	Guy friend
Author	Bakers77
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	January 21, 2018 5:17 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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