Guys who get tons of interest from other girls, do you think having all that attention will keep you from having a good long term relationship?

zboo1h · 2018-01-22T22:12:04+00:00

No. Women need to constantly be reminded that other bitches want you. You need to make sure they know.

DickTerper · 2018-01-23T01:44:56+00:00

I feels good knowing I have options, but ultimately it makes me put less value on the relationship.

In my experience, this is almost a necessary condition for LTRs with hot girls in their prime.

The thing is, these girls are all getting a ton of male attention. Almost certainly, if she's 18-23 and hot, she's getting more attention and options than you, even if you are a hot guy yourself and have good game and social skills.

If she has all these options, and you (or don't believe you do - which is what really matters) - then your relationship is imbalanced. In fact, I would suggest the only way an LTR will work with such a girl is if you believe you have these options.

Otherwise, as you see in many reports here and elsewhere, eventually she'll start testing, and if you blink - because you think you got a good deal and she's above the SMV you can typically get - then the relationship will start getting rocky until she cheats and/or leaves.

[deleted] · 2018-01-22T21:25:20+00:00

This is exactly the mindset that you want to have; that if she ever stops worshipping the ground you walk upon you'll be able to find someone later that day that looks as good or better than her that will.

The_Lightskin_Wonder · 2018-01-23T02:35:26+00:00

For me its tough because I find myself having buyers remorse all the time. I always want someone else. And the longer you've been in redpill, the more the process to picking up women becomes easier and meaningless. So every girl feels like their in arms reach.

I know this doesn't get mentioned a lot because we don't strategize on LTR'S

But LTR quality women should be 60% personality 50% looks. Really make sure you are not just fucking her. Really make sure its not just because she's has traditional wife traits. No matter who it is they are going to get older and less attractive. But their personality will be everlasting.

Yeah she can cook dinner and xyz but Wait til she sits down after serving you, and she takes every one of your fucking jokes seriously, she's asking for your confirmation on everything. It makes you sick. You'll spend more time interacting then fucking. Don't forget that.

I_STOMP_YOU · 2018-01-22T21:31:45+00:00

If it's that easy to replace her, then start aiming higher for the person you're committing to a LTR.

MattyAnon · 2018-01-23T01:36:39+00:00

t I get enough that whenever the girl I'm dating pisses me off, I just think about how easy it would be to load up tinder and replace her. I

You should tell her this.

her. I feels good knowing I have options, but ultimately it makes me put less value on the relationship. Not sure what to do about this...

This is correct thinking.

You don't need a relationship, and the more you value one the more the girl will try to extract resources from you.

MrBowlfish · 2018-01-22T17:52:01+00:00

It just means you LTR higher quality girls that are harder to replace at the drop of a hat.

Title	Guys who get tons of interest from other girls, do you think having all that attention will keep you from having a good long term relationship?
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Date	January 22, 2018 5:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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