Alright need some advice. While my wife and I agreed to separate, i told her i wanted to take the time apart to work on myself and her the same. But the matter of fact is I want to see what is out there and I’ve actually already started talking to someone and i haven’t even moved out yet. She obviously doesn’t know and I don’t think would ever want to work it out in the future if she knew about it (i cheated a few years back). She has flat out told me if i see anyone else, she would file after the separation period. Would you be honest about wanting to see what’s out there? We have kids, so it’s always in the back of my mind things may work out in the future.