Do us Men Stand Allown when we are at are saddest?

CrowMagpie · 2023-08-17T20:26:01+00:00

Yes.

Top-Bumblebee8411 · 2023-08-17T14:07:00+00:00

Yea. Because we were taught the Marboro man independence. See the commercials we saw were not just to sell things. They were made to shape men into easily controlled individuals who don’t protest or gather in groups as in labour movements. The depression thing is a side effect of that completely idiotic hogwash of individualism that makes us all lonely and emotionally distant.

ijustdontcare74 · 2023-08-17T14:34:59+00:00

Not necessarily. Good mates (male) can make the difference. When I was going through my divorce my best mate was there for me, actually took me away for a week to get some distance, perspective and helped me formulate my action plan. It allowed me to come back to fight my corner in the best frame of mind and actively stopped me from even considering asking my exw to stay. Those are the sorts of assistance men need, not the fake platitudes from society, which to be honest, doesn't give a fuck about men's issues and problems.

However in general I would agree with the OP's question...in general men do stand alone in times of crisis. How often have we seen or heard of stories where a man loses his job and shortly after his woman walks away saying he no longer provides what she expects. It never seems to happen the other way around! Women are loved and cared for unconditionally, men are only loved if we PROVIDE something...once that utility is gone, we are most often thrown aside.

Title	Do us Men Stand Allown when we are at are saddest?
Author	lolololpooppooppoop
Upvotes	5
Comments	3
Date	August 17, 2023 11:30 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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