Do you believe that women who are “below average” should exclusively swipe right on “below average” men?

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-08-26T19:51:39+00:00

Yes obviously. If you are punching 2+ points out of your league, you are asking to be pump and dumped. Just about every guy on the planet would agree. Hypergamy is women's greatest asset and their worst enemy.

Nobody is saying you "deserved to be punished", that's just you being a perpetual victim and also naive/delusional about female SMV. If you know men will fuck anything, it's up to you to discern who is serious and who isn't serious.

ItoshiSae10 · 2023-08-26T20:01:18+00:00

No. I advocate for women to pick only men they find attractive(and preferably arent bad people) so average and below average men dont get stuck in deadbedrooms. Pick a guy who you are head over heels with.

tbmnitz · 2023-08-27T10:58:40+00:00

She is being hypergamous. That's literally what hypergamy is. Dating up.

And where did i say she "deserved to be punished"? lmao

It's about having basic self awareness. If i date a women who is out of my league, i would consider the possibility that she is using me for my money. If a woman dates a man out of her league, she should consider the possibility that she will be used for sex.

This is very basic stuff that any mature perceptive adult would consider.

Or you can choose to be naïve and ignorant, it's up to you. 🤷‍♂️

AlastorSitri · 2023-08-27T14:07:10+00:00

If they are smart yes

Swiping on men you realistically have no chance with is just a pump and dump waiting to happen, which is a shame since then it turns into "Why are all men horrible (for not living up to my sky high recommendations)"

Not to say men aren't the same way. Online dating suddenly gave everyone sky high expectations due to the unlimited pool of choices, when they probably don't deserve that.

You made a post the other day asking if it's wrong that you wouldn't consider a man working a minimum wage job. Why is it suddenly not ok for men to stay in their lane, yet you and women in general are able to shoot for the stars and complain that HVM know what they can get?

Furthermore, to use your own logic, as a self claimed mid value man, why tf should I pour time, energy, and resources into a LVW when I know I can get better?

Welllarmedhippie · 2023-08-26T17:21:54+00:00

The people in that comment section are deluded tools. God it must be depressing being them.

But no, people should swipe who they want.

atmhere11 · 2023-08-26T21:44:29+00:00

I think below average males should stick to women within their weight/income levels. Half the men bitching here wouldn’t be wasting hours on this gay sub if they were to stick to their fat and broke chicks but nah, even the ugly guys want the anime waifu or white stacey, all other women be damned

ImOverIt06 · 2023-08-26T18:16:44+00:00

It really just depends on their game and desired outcome. I think people just need to understand the basic dynamics around modern dating so they don't get played and then act accordingly because a lot of decent people get burnt hard. Naive romantic types, both male and female.

RatDontPanic · 2023-08-27T05:00:14+00:00

A woman who is somehow forced to swipe right on a below average woman is a woman who will make that man's life absolute hell. Abuse, cheating... murder by poison... those are the tools of a woman so jilted.

Title	Do you believe that women who are “below average” should exclusively swipe right on “below average” men?
Author	AnyIntroduction3288
Upvotes	6
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Date	August 26, 2023 5:15 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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