We were talking in chunks from last thursday to Saturday.

She wanted me to come out clubbing with her and her mates last Saturday but i declined. Following day, we met up for the first time, we just had coffee and talked but she was quite hard to engage:

-poor eye contact -tried kino but she kept on subtly moving her arm -she sat with her legs crossed and arms crossed -made little attempt to get to know me -checked her phone a few times (she had to meet friends afterwards)

We hugged and left and i was pretty bummed because online we had a good connection but IRL she just didn't seem to be interested.

I told her a few hours later that it was nice talking to her but her body language was off-putting and she apologised saying she was hungover and tired and that she wants to take it slow and chilled coz she recently came out of a relationship

So, slow and chilled? What does that mean? I told her to let me know when she wants to hang out again but i doubt she will but i want to try and get her one more time...

Advice?