The title should be: A lot of these dating woes that guys post online could really just be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”. However, that title was too long.

Example 1: Nice Guys Finish Last.

Assuming these guys are not lying, I find it fascinating that I can find women that date/marry wonderful men and yet all nice guys see is “assholes getting girls”. That’s because the asshole has the women they actually want: Lots of pussy. They see hot douchebags pumping and dumping girls left and right, they’re thinking “Damn! Why cant I be that lucky?!” Otherwise, there would be no reason to care for these chicks the assholes are getting. She’s either as douchey as the guys she’s dating or she’s mentally unstable and need professional help (not a boyfriend). Nice Guys dont actually want to be a regular guy because regular guys dont get the amount of pussy the hot assholes get.

Example 2: Wanting to be worshipped.

The biggest lie told by both genders is “Im upset that being a short guy/fat girl makes me undesirable and unloved” but when you actually challenge them and show them people with the same attribute is able to find love and be desirable, turns out that was never the issue. They’re mad they’re not worshipped for that attribute. When guys say “Atleast fat girls have a popular porn tag”, they tell on themselves. They’re mad they cant say “Im 5’6” and there aren’t women going “OMG! THATS SO HOT! IM CUMMING ALREADY! JUST FUCK ME NOW!” It doesnt matter most men get laid and most women arent height queens. They’re upset that height queens are a thing and that they’re desperate to fuck tall guys solely for their height.

The reason women can’t give these guys good advice is because they lie about what they want. They give off this “Im so lonely and just want some love!” attitude, but they really want to be HIM. They want to be the top dog, the alpha, etc. Mentally, these guys are still trying to be the popular kid, not realizing that most people have moved on from highschool.

The vast majority of guys get laid, so clearly the problem is not desirability: https://evp.sagepub.com/content/13/3/1474704915604563.full.pdf+html