There's every day women and then there's unicorns that are totally not like the masses... and then there's the ultra rare extraterrestrials sent here to show this piece of shit species what true sapience looks like. Know the signs, lol - normie-tier is as common as taxes. Unicorns are no more common than 1 in 20. Extraterrestrials are black swans that come into your life maybe once ever, if at all.

For instance:

Normal-tier: "He needs to make the first move because I want a confident man who has the rizz and the (traditionally) masculine aura about him. And no weird hobbies, they have to be popular ones!"

Unicorn-tier: "Hey, shy guy, what's your name? You're an avid anime fan? Fine by me, I'm open minded." (Could be any non-mainstream hobby, not just anime.)

Extraterrestrial-tier: "(talking to a straight up non-Chad at Starbucks) Hey there! I saw your laptop and noticed you're a gamer. I love that game, too! Oh yeah and I know where you can get a killer bleeding edge laptop/video card for pennies on the dollar!"

Celestial-tier: Extraterrestrial-tier who approaches a guy with a recessed chin, etc.

True demisexuals may also be extraterrestrials in disguise or at least unicorns. All Extraterrestrials and above are demisexuals with no known exception. Demisexuals who are human may ascend to meta-human/transhuman status to become on par with Celestials. Again, you will only ever meet one transhuman woman in your lifetime, especially one that looks in your direction.

May the odds ever be in your favor.