I remember being lonely as hell throughout all of high school, breaking down sobbing in my college dorm because I was so far from my family and I didn’t have any friends that I could spend time with for comfort.
Know what I never did? I never used that loneliness as a shield or justification to be a misogynist or sexist. I never turned my negative feelings towards women. I didn’t bemoan how I’d never change.
Here’s why we never mock loneliness, lurking incels: because loneliness never makes anyone insult women, calling them toilets or femoids. Loneliness never makes people advocate for rape, or systematic murder of women.
Being a shitty person is why people do those things. Connect the dots.
[–]uselessloner123 16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The thing that is crazy about IT is a lot of stuff on there is not even posted from incel communities.
They find any unhinged rant online often times from social media and just post it claiming that an “incel” wrote it.
[–]five10manletit's over for manlets 15 points16 points17 points (6 children) | Copy Link
they are progressive leftists, who believe in guilt by association and a culture of shaming, i.e. even the self-identified incels who DON'T do those things are guilty by even daring to mingle or share a space with the bad apples, it's part of that whole worldview/psychology
[–]elektroncloud 11 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
The irony is that subreddit is full of lonely men in denial and their land whale allies
[–]five10manletit's over for manlets 11 points12 points13 points (1 child) | Copy Link
"I may be a virgin who women find repulsive, but I'm not an incel!"
[+]candikanez -7 points-6 points-5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are.
[–]five10manletit's over for manlets 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
What you don't get is that being in the vicinity of someone doesn't make you best friends and share all their beliefs and characteristics. Some insane freak praising shooters doesn't mean you're buddies with that guy, nor does it mean that every guy who thinks looks and height are most of your relationship/sexual success is a lunatic with bloodlust who "hates women". Most of us just want to
When that FtM trans shot up that school and other extreme radical trans on twitter were praising it we don't see everyone saying all trans are like this, but whenever someone believes in the blackpill /r/inceltears gaslighters will pull out screencaps of unhinged psychos and say "SEE! SEE! HE'S ONE OF YOU! BEST BUDDIES! EXTREMIST FUTURE TERRORIST MISOGYNIST MURDERER! BAN HIM FROM THE INTERNET!".
I literally just want to be good looking so I can fuck women and think looks are most of what women look for. Stop this guilt by association nonsense, it makes you look very foolish and childish.
[–]LostOnLostIsland"I'll shank my knees, then walk the plank and freeze" 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't even nessecarly disagree with what is being said there. There are definitly some guys over at incels co who are absolutly bananas, and who do this shit purly on purpose in order to piss people off. That being said, we are kinda past this point now. Inceldom has reached the average Joe, either directly or indirectly and most just want to find a way out. Who then log onto the internet, read posts like those and then get gaslit and shamed into oblivion, eventhough they never did anything to deserve it.
[–]StockHamster12WhitePill 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
We hope that thanks to his virtue signaling post, he will have found a girlfriend in his DM and will do something more interesting than hanging out on IT
[–]BlackpillEnjoyer 12 points13 points14 points (1 child) | Copy Link
We could do this with every group. Should we hate all women because some of the fringe ones think "All men should be castrated"?
Tbh, I think most of them are just hateful people at heart that want to spread misery and incels are a free target for that hate. no1 is going to defend incels.
[–]DonttouchmyPlumbusTrillions must sneedpill 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
They joined aliens and nazis as groups you can show complete disrespect to without anyone raising an issue
[–]DepressionMetroNeutralPill 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I think It's still weird how certain people conflate being lonely with being a misogynist even though those lonely people haven't said or did anything to justify the label of a misogynist and It's just assumed or implied.
It's one thing if they were actually being a misogynist but most haven't.
[+]Sisstasia -10 points-9 points-8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
SO many of them say hateful things. At least on public forums like this. It's not like a very tiny minority by any means. A lot of them are batshit insane as well as hateful, which is why inceltears exists in the first place.
[+]Happytallperson -13 points-12 points-11 points (8 children) | Copy Link
Ok, but a quick browse of your post history shows up a huge amount of misogyny.
[–]Mundane-Smell7936BlackPill[S] 5 points6 points7 points (6 children) | Copy Link
Talking about facts and statistics =/= misogyny
I bet you're the type to call me "racist" for bringing up the fact that African Americans commit a disproportionate amount of crime despite being a minority group. (I'm black, btw.)
Sorry if facts, or discussion of those facts offends you. But that's hardly "misogyny".
[+]Happytallperson -8 points-7 points-6 points (5 children) | Copy Link
Lol, anymore strawman?
[–]Mundane-Smell7936BlackPill[S] 2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
You never established what exactly I said was misogyny, so I extrapolated what you were trying to say.
If I'm wrong, please point out exactly what I said that brings you to the conclusion I hate women. I guarantee you will not find anywhere in my post history me saying "I hate women".
[–]Happytallperson -5 points-4 points-3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/16xzirg/comment/k3623q9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
Generalising about all women.
Claiming women are "trapping" men to raise their children.
Yeah - those are misogynistic tropes. It would be impossible to hold those views and not hate women.
[–]Mundane-Smell7936BlackPill[S] 6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Women's biphasic mating strategy is nothing new, but you would know that if you had any knowledge of anthropology at all.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/272697
Women (generally) find highly masculine men attractive during thier ovulation phase, and when they leave ovulation they become more open to dating androgynous looking men.
Everything I say, I say because it has science backing it. You can come at me all day lmao. I know my shit and I'll refute you every time.
[–]Happytallperson -1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, that doesn't back your worldview that women all sleep around and then trap a man.
That's just your misogyny, not science.
[–]triple_skyfall 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You can shout "misogyny"! in the face of statistics & actual data all day. Trust me....no one is buying it.
[–]five10manletit's over for manlets 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I like your username, /u/happytallperson. I'd be happy too if I were tall.