My 7 years of relationship girlfriend left me for another girl

EverVigilant1 · 2023-10-10T14:29:01+00:00

This kind of thing happens a lot. Girls in their early 20s move on.

When a woman ends things with you, the only thing to say is "OK". And don't talk to her again. Don't fight for the relationship. End contact with her, delete and block.

The main reason she ended the relationship with you is because she wasn't physically attracted to you anymore. That's one of the only two reasons any woman ever ends anything with any man (the other being that she wants commitment but she's with a Chad who's aBuSiVe or he won't commit so she leaves that relationship to go find a man who will commit).

My advice to you: Get some therapy, just someone you can talk to a few times, but don't do a lot of this. Cut this girl off and don't talk to her again. Move on and do other things in life. Never again make any woman the center of your life. And remember that the sole and only reason for any lack of sexual/relationship success is because of lack of physical attractiveness. That's it. That's all. The only reason men fail with women is because of lack of physical/sexual attractiveness.

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-10-10T17:08:04+00:00

Bro if she's gay then there's not anything you did wrong lol

platinirisms · 2023-10-10T13:30:54+00:00

She stopped loving you or stopped wanting to date you and wanted to date other people instead. There’s not enough information to properly explain why she left you, maybe she didn’t find you physically attractive or you weren’t exciting enough, or she fell for FOMO (Fear of missing out) since she’s young and wanted to explore to see what other people are like.

She still wants to keep in contact and talk to you because you’re one of her few friends that gives her attention and makes her feel good, and/or if all else fails and her exploration hits a dead end, she’s hoping she can just hop back into a relationship with you like nothing happened.

I’m lost and depressed

Without knowing your situation I can only give you the generic advice, start drinking only water, eat healthy foods, start going the gym and getting regular exercise, get some muscle, lose the weight, a healthy body is a healthy mind.

Start moving on with your life, it’s over between you two now.

Rozmpounia · 2023-10-10T13:50:28+00:00

You should watch the videos from FACEandLMS and Saint Hamudi they make a lot of good points about the situation you're in right now.There's quite a bit of information to take in and it might be overwhelming at first but trust me you'll feel much better after you realize the truth,best of luck buddy boyo

AnotherComparison · 2023-10-10T19:50:57+00:00

That was cruel of her to call you, just to show off her new relationship. Seems she wanted to hurt you, so don’t let her win. You’ve shown you can get a girlfriend and sustain a relationship, so don’t give up.

Horses4causes · 2023-10-10T11:37:04+00:00

You're not lost. She's lost because she's in a homosexual relationship.

Title	My 7 years of relationship girlfriend left me for another girl
Author	ChariChadx
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	October 10, 2023 10:58 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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