Last night, girlfriend calls me and asks if I’m up to go to a trip with her parents for two nights.
I have a big exam coming up in four days and I need to study, so I decline, saying it’s on such a short notice.
Today, I go to her place to have some coffee and probably smash. She feels down, upset, moody. I ask if anything’s wrong, obviously she says no with a fake smile. (Idk why tf did I even ask)
Around the time I left, I initiate sex, first time she stops me ever since we started the relationship.
I immediately get up and leave the apartment. Upon leaving, I tell her “I will not contact you today. It’s up to you to do it”. I’m met with slight anger and eye rolling. I go up to her and ask, the second time “are you going to tell me what’s wrong?”, to which again the same response.
I say “ok then, take care”, and leave. She usually holds the door open until I’m in the elevator, now she just shut it right away.
My questions:
1) How was my frame? What should I have/have not done? 2) What could be the cause of her mood? Could it be my refusal for the trip?
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