Youtube recommendations for videos about how to stack cash, gymmaxx, improve your personality, etc., have recently been filling my homepage.

Grifters like Robert Kiyosaki, Hamza, and Charisma on Command are releasing shorts with millions of views and comments sections full of lonely men who say shit like:

"I'm 50 pounds overweight, 5'3, and working at 7/11 bro, but thanks to Robert's inspirational 30 second short, I'm gonna go into massive debt to buy a shitbox trailer in Bumfuck, Arkansas and become a billionaire real estate mogul bro by using that debt to borrow money from the bank to buy up the whole trailer park bro. The bank will definitely wanna lend $1mil to an sub5 7/11 worker in massive debt bro! All hail Lord Kiyosaki bro!"

This is bpill 101. I shouldn't have to say this, but the visibility these self-improoooooovement grifters have could actually be a good thing in the long run. It arguably means that men are just beginning to wake up and realize that they cannot "be themselves" to succeed in a world where most people under 30 will never own their own houses. Those downbad men and lurking bluepillers need to hear this following message:

We are not saying self-improvement is fundamentally bad.

I can't speak for anyone else, but my life got way better after I started lifting and running my way from an obese body to a leanmaxxed one over 8 years. Physically massive self-improvement is truly possible.

The daily post-workout endorphin rush is enough lifefuel for the entire day and keeps me from seriously considering roping. That in itself makes gymcelling worth it for me.

And having enough money means that I don't have to worry about turning on the lights in my own house, eating the right food, paying to vitaminmaxx, and even adding to my savings and investment portfolio in order to eventually realestatemaxx (which is legit if you wait for years) without going into debt.

But at no point do I think that it is guaranteed to improooooooooove my dating life markedly. I am still 5'7, Asian, and autistic.

This brings me to the other, more important side of OP's message:

Lonely men need to be realistic.

5'7 means that 65% of women will reject me just based on height.

Asian means that 90% of non-Asian women and 40% of Asian women will reject me for the horrific crime of existing as an Asian male. The effect of your being Asian is equivalent to that of being a white man six inches shorter than you.

And being high-functioning autistic (to say nothing of low-functioning) means that I have an 83% chance of being a permavirgin. I am actually between Autism Level I and II, so whether or not I can even be considered "high-functioning" is debatable.

I even have a 6.5-7 face according to photofeeler and r/truerateme, which is a genetic privilege in that people will trust me more than they would a sub5-faced person upon seeing me (my face looks almost exactly like this but darker). Even so, that positive effect likely goes away within 10 seconds.

I truly did what I could with the cards I was given.

I was born, and my life was over.

So, do what you can with the cards the Prophet St. Hamudi pbuh gave you in the womb, but do not think that you'll walk into a club and immediately have stacies surrounding you just because you got a 6 pack and a 6 figure salary.

They will surround the minimum-wage, barely-coherent, and misogynistic Clark Kent-lookalike and treat him as if he is Superman incarnate directly from the DC Cinematic Universe.

But they will ignore you because your genes dictated that you are a Supaman spawntrapped in the Inkwell Cinematic Universe.

And it's not your fault.

I have seen it so many times, and it never gets less brutal, especially as I enter my 30s.

But it is still better than continuing to cope. Self improoooooooove if you are so inclined bro, but don't let your journey turn into delusional and unrealistic cope.

For example, even if I improooooooooooove and spend $200K to LL until I reach 6', is it really worth sacrificing my mobility and risking osteoarthritis only to still have a 90% chance of rejection before I open my mouth due to being Asian? And then let's say I've geomaxxed to SEA, where I will open my mouth and still possibly have a ~83% chance of permavirginity due to autism while I'm mogged left and right, but this time by white men shorter than me with sub5 faces?

Sometimes it could be arguably better to neva breed, to neva krampee.

So don't be a free agent in life. Let the sciencepill guide you.