I believe that the most important reason why its so difficult to find love on Earth is because its a place designed to separate the most sensitive and deep souled beings from each other. To make them feel despair and submit to society.

Heterosexual intimacy is the avenue through which men and women can heal each other and become psychologically mature. As men we are battered by our family of origin and later our city, nation, economic system, educational system and so on. In the embrace of a woman we can temporarily forget this state of affairs.

Its natural to think that you're a slave and your soul is worthless if you can't get intimacy from a woman due to your natural instincts, if you're a healthy man.

But this is also because the Earth 🌎 by itself is a spiritual prison that is programmed for love to be a privilege. It is designed to make souls suffer. But that doesn't mean your soul and you are worthless if you cannot find love. You have to remember who you are. A powerful being that is infinitely worthy of love and who possesses wonderful qualities.

They want you to think this world is everything so that you feel worthless if you aren't physically attractive and can't win back your worth with money. This is what fuels the economic and banking system. But if you know that you have infinite worth spiritually even though it cannot be seen right now, you will be able to give yourself moments of spiritual bliss through art and nature without believing it is a cope which it is not, because the spiritual world of beauty is just as real as the physical one.

One day love will win over the dark forces governing Earth and finding loving relationships on Earth will no longer be a privilege but something everyone can have. All we have to do is believe.

Tldr: Remember that you're a souled being of infinite worth. The world can make you feel pain but cannot destroy you.