I'm a newbie and I'm skimming the main sub, in many posts it is hinted that there are some key requirements if you want to elevate your plate to a potential LTR, what are these? I think one of those is the fact the woman isn't a financial burden and she's willing to pay her fair share, what else? Right now I'm in the process of get over a break up (I decided it) and in order to move on it's key to recognize she wasn't a LTR material. Ty for the help