Hi all so I've been married to my wife now for nearly 4 years. It started fine we fell madly in love all the rest moved in together after getting married and now have a daught who's 1 and half years old.

About 3 years ago we started having arguments that slowly got bigger and bigger as time went on which came down to neither of us communicating very well on top of her showing narcissistic qualities and just in genral speaking badly to me. Coming to a point where divorce looked quite likley. I'd like to say hear I wasn't perfect I have a memory of a sive and often forgot things she'd told me or asked me to do.(just 1 of my faults)

To present day we havent argued in about 3-4 months and it seemed things were getting better. But ive been noticing there seems to be a lack of respect on her end. She often belittles me,my family, my job or my hobbies calling me names and just being disrespectful. I am not a conforntational person so when she she says things that upset me I often bite my tounge but its been annoying me more and more. She will often say I'm boring or my hobbies are stupid and tells me I always look miserable.

The issue I have is 2 part. Firstly in the past when we argued whenever I would bring something up she would always accuse me of blaming everything on her so not sure how to approach her with this without that accusation being thrown around again and a argument starting. And secondly is this a red flag that mabey its time to walk away from this marrige. It has crossed my mind alot in the last 6 months and not sure if itsbtime to pull the plug on it.

Thank you in advance for any advice