Left to look at a job a few hours ago. Got back to her place, she's gone. I'd left my laptop open. Didn't even realize you could see OK Cupid on the computer, I've only used the app.
Anyway I fired it up to write a bid, reopened the closed window and saw it was open to those messages.
Anyway, pretty innoccuous stuff, but still, some of it pretty recent.
For the record I've been dating her a couple months, banged a couple other chicks, but have dropped my other plates. The messaging is more just old habit. I'm not planning on fucking anyone else.
So we're gonna meet up for drinks in a while.
So, advice. What is the best option?
Bring it up first and out her on her heels?
Don't say shit?
If I don't say shit, and she brings it up, just flat deny? She's a smart woman. There's a fine line between holding frame and gaslighting in this situation.
Or if she brings it up, just tell her hey, it's an old habit. I'm not meeting or banging these chicks?
Have at it guys.
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