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shit-zen-giggles · 2024-01-07T06:45:02+00:00

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Sir_Spectacular · 2024-01-07T12:01:00+00:00

It probably doesn't matter. Those all seem like reasonable solutions to me.

I guess some girls might be put off by being made to share accommodations with a boy they don't know that well, but many would not. If I wanted to be extra-gentlemanly, I'd probably want to directly ask the girls in question if they're comfortable with it. If they are, and you're not planning on doing anything creepy to them while they're asleep, then everything should be all good.

Sleeping with a large group of girls, is probably pretty safe, as far as false accusations go. The more girls there are, the more witnesses there would be that could prove your innocence and clear your name if someone started spreading rumors. So if you're worried about that, I wouldn't be.

The exception, of course, is in the case you are aware that one or more of them are manipulative amoral harpies with personal vendettas against you. Like... don't tempt fate. If you're noticing obvious, glaring red flags, or the potential for big drama with any of the girls going on the trip, I'd give them a wide berth and sleep with the younger guys, or the teachers. But if we assume these are all relatively normal, and non-sociopathic ladies, you're probably okay to share their room.

(Also, being a single guy surrounded by nearly a dozen girls in intimate environs for an extended period of time is... pretty much the optimal lady-wooing scenario. I don't know if you're single, but if you are, I'd probably be more excited than fearful right now.)

shit-zen-giggles · 2024-01-07T06:44:24+00:00

I would go with option

A: sleep in the year belows me dorm,

honestly.

Fancy_Point_595 · 2024-01-07T02:20:41+00:00

Why be nervous? Go ski and lay. Pipe.

Icy_Monitor2870 · 2024-01-07T02:23:19+00:00

It wouldn't hurt to ask and see who's confrotable with it. That way, they're at least have a head's up with whatever your choice is.

DifficultPapaya3038 · 2024-01-07T02:27:42+00:00

C or get an accommodation. I highly doubt they’re gonna allow you to sleep in a all girl dorm

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-01-07T03:37:52+00:00

It sounds like you're nervous about sleeping near the girls, so don't do that.

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-01-07T05:14:11+00:00

Stay the hell out of the girl dorm, the safest way might be to sleep in the teachers facilities IF they are all males, which I strongly doubt, right?

Title	Question
Author	ComprehensiveBad727
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	January 7, 2024 1:46 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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