My bf hasn’t picked up any calls or messages in 2 days! Help?

Jenneapolis · 2024-02-04T21:28:48+00:00

Every time you reach out to him, you are just making it more likely he’s not going to call.

Wife_and_Mama · 2024-02-04T20:55:48+00:00

Leave him alone. That is seriously what you need to do. You are being so overbearing. He's going to get a restraining order if you don't back off.

Edit: In regards to the interview, go alone and leave him be if he even shows up. Let him come to you or not.

Agreeable-Comedian24 · 2024-02-04T21:09:38+00:00

What you need to do is take the hint. Leave him alone and focus on yourself and how to better your situation. From your previous post it sounds like he lives with family. So you don’t need to worry about him, he’s fine. You need to seek help for your own issues. It sounds like you’re using him as an escape or distraction.

PsychoticNurse · 2024-02-04T22:43:53+00:00

I'm going to be very blunt with you here. You are very overbearing and intrusive. That would piss anyone off and make them shut down. If it were reversed and a man was just dropping over your house and refusing to leave, that would be terrifying.

I think you really need to consider therapy for this. This type of needy behavior will lead to worse issues with men down the road-because at some point this man will have enough and tell you it's over. So you'll attract toxic men who will take advantage of your neediness and insecurity. Please, work on yourself and work on fixing your personal issues at home.

Lemurian_Queen · 2024-02-04T21:16:25+00:00

It’s always hard to see the obvious, when you want something to work so badly, but for your own self respect you have to take off the rose colored glasses.

He’s just straight up ghosting you. There will never be an excuse for this.

Take a bit to heal, and move on! Your youth and time to find a good partner is limited, and shouldn’t be wasted on a guy that can’t even call you back in 2 days.

Saying sorry to him for what? Do not lower yourself by groveling for him.

HelloFuckYou1 · 2024-02-05T02:14:56+00:00

at this point, i'm not quite sure if you have a relationship anymore. outside of that, i agree with the other comments: you are intrusive

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feral-pixi-starling · 2024-02-05T17:00:46+00:00

do u have bpd?

Suspicious-Side7068 · 2024-02-06T04:09:11+00:00

So did he "see you tomorrow"?

Street_Papaya_1123 · 2024-02-07T03:51:53+00:00

He was probably cheating though be careful

Title	My bf hasn’t picked up any calls or messages in 2 days! Help?
Author	PhyllisKepner
Upvotes	3
Comments	25
Date	February 4, 2024 6:02 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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