"Thats okay if you're busy, i'll make some plans with friends."

smullyoz · 2018-02-26T02:00:31+00:00

You don't have to tell her shit. You say 'k' and do whatever else you have going on.

lIIlllIIlIIllIlllIIl · Mon Feb 26 2:53:52 2018 UTC

Why are you asking a girl what she's up to? Just say "hey I'm going to be at the zoo at noon. You're welcome to join me."

Wakatowa · 2018-02-26T02:19:58+00:00

Because these responses show that you don't give a fuck if she flakes on you. You got better shit to do than fussing over some girl that blew you off. Your goal here is to make them chase you by making Their hamster spin, not you feeling sorry for yourself because they don't want to see you. Typically a conversation Should go something like this "hey wyd" "nm u" "About to go out, want to come along with me to X?" "Can't, busy" "OK cool, just let me know when ever you're free and we can do something" Then soft next till She messages You.

jake755 · 2018-02-26T02:21:35+00:00

If anything, I’d respond with, “No problem.” Then leave it alone. Since she didn’t ask to reschedule with firm plans, soft next her.

SuperCrazy07 · 2018-02-26T02:22:35+00:00

I personally wouldn't say that exact thing (though, it isn't bad).

I'd go with "cool, we'll catch up later." And, then think she isn't really that into me so I'll game other girls and only pay attention to this one if she reaches out.

jake755 · 2018-02-26T02:07:44+00:00

I wouldn't even respond.

Terdmuffin · 2018-02-26T07:27:20+00:00

Is this a real or hypothetical scenario?

[deleted] · 2018-02-27T07:08:09+00:00

Lmfaoooooo the last response. Not even here to be an asshole, it was funny.

juliusstreicher · 2018-02-26T23:38:33+00:00

"That's OK, I really didn't want you to go out with me! I'm GLAD you didn't want to go out! I was asking just for a joke! I'm going to go out and have fun now! Watch me! Whee! I'm having so much fun already! I have a LOT of friends! And THEY like me!"

Or, just say "OK".

addwater · 2018-02-27T16:19:47+00:00

Lmao

I reckon a good portion of guys here do in fact believe in that reality, yes.

In my opinion, you can convey your value and busy scheduele by other means.

A low investment or no response at all is sufficient.

jake755 · 2018-02-26T02:45:55+00:00

Another seperate question guys, how do you envoke emotions quickly with someone online so you don't get blocked or ignored?

Title	"Thats okay if you're busy, i'll make some plans with friends."
Author	jake755
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	February 26, 2018 1:53 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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